I always thought LDR is not a problem for me, because I've been experiencing LDR for like more than 1 year now.
I used to think that,
"hey, why not? its just distance and time if you keep in touch, then nothing will happen to a couple".
when I came to United Kingdom, Manchester Metropolitan University, to study for my bachelor degree, I realise that I'm not the only one in here whom experiencing LDR, 8 people including me experienced the same problem.
As time passes day by day,everything assumption I had in mind changed. I realise LDR is not just Distance and Time, it more than that. In a LDR, some may feel confident in their relationship, some may feel insecure, some may thinking what will happen in the future if this LDR continues for a long time.
Seriously, I'm the confident and I dun think too much what will happen in the future. First of all, its because I knew it when I decided to hold her hands, I want to be with her with all my heart. I also remember when I hold her hand, she ask me not to regret my own decision and yes I told her I will not !
Despite being confident and all, I'll neglected 1 simple rules. That is dun judge a book by its cover, every time I see her through on-line video, I can see her smile happily but there is 1 thing. As a girl, a LDR will make her feel insecure, no matter what the cause, distances makes 1 insecure.
That is why I have to step up my roles as a boyfriend to make her secure again. =) and I 7m7 will never ever make her feel that way again.